By 7:00 AM on Saturday, the smell of percolated coffee—strong enough to strip paint—acted as the first alarm. There was no "good morning" or itinerary. Instead, there was a pair of work gloves placed pointedly on the kitchen island.
By Sunday evening, as we packed to leave, he didn't offer a hug. He just nodded, handed Jeff a bag of homegrown tomatoes, and said, "Check your tire pressure before you hit the interstate." A Weekend with Jeff's Father
Lunch was always a silent affair of ham sandwiches on white bread, eaten over a spread-out newspaper. But in that silence, you noticed the small things: the way he watched the birds at the feeder with a sudden, unexpected softness, or the way he checked the oil in Jeff’s car without being asked. By 7:00 AM on Saturday, the smell of