James Arthur — - Can I Be Him

: Many listeners connect with the painful experience of being "the one who waits" or watching a loved one be mistreated.

: As seen in his broader career, Arthur often writes about the desire to "prove people wrong" or find a better version of himself; in this song, he presents himself as the better choice for the person he loves. Short Essay on Music | Adedayo Agarau - Isele Magazine James Arthur - Can I Be Him

: The hook—"Can I be him?"—is a desperate plea for a chance to provide the care, attention, and love that the other person is supposedly failing to give. : Many listeners connect with the painful experience