: A hallmark of a mature bent is the realization that "the best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny".
"Hey, it's been a while. I noticed we haven't connected lately and wanted to see how you're doing." mature bent
: A mature conversation involves resolving differences amicably and "not saying anything during an argument that you might regret later". Creative and Philosophical Reflection : A hallmark of a mature bent is
"I get anxious when someone doesn't reply quickly; how do you feel about trying to reply the same day for our text conversations?" "Hey, it's been a while
: A mature approach is direct about needs without being controlling: