Wale - Lovehate Thing Feat. Sam Dew Link
It reached No. 89 on the Billboard Hot 100 and was certified Platinum by the RIAA in June 2025.
Experience the soulful visuals and heartfelt lyrics in the official music video: Wale - LoveHate Thing feat. Sam Dew [Official Music Video] YouTube• Jun 25, 2013
The lyrics explore the cyclical nature of public and personal perception: "Love you then they hate you / Then they love you again". Production & Impact Wale - LoveHate Thing feat. Sam Dew
The official music video , directed by Sarah McColgan, features Wale performing on an NYC rooftop with a backing band, interspersed with scenes of his hometown, Washington D.C..
The song has been compared to Jay-Z's "Dear Summer" for its reflective, slightly defensive tone and use of subliminal commentary regarding local DMV-area conflicts. It reached No
Wale addresses the "crabs-in-a-barrel" mentality prevalent in his hometown and the industry. He famously raps, "I lost a lot of friends and they ain't even dead," highlighting the emotional distance that develops as goals are reached.
"LoveHate Thing" is a soulful reflection on the paradox of success, particularly how rising to the top often breeds passive-aggressive resentment from those once close to you. Released in May 2013 as the second single from Wale's third album, The Gifted , the track features smooth vocals from Sam Dew and a nostalgic, 70s-soul-inspired production. Core Themes & Meaning Sam Dew [Official Music Video] YouTube• Jun 25,
The track was co-produced by Sam Dew, Tone P, and Stokley Williams of the R&B group Mint Condition.